The more you give, the more you expect to get back in return--it's a simple truth we have all come to utilize in our lives. And when it comes to relationships--let's say between two friends--this fact is anything but a rarity. But in order to have a healthy relationship, there must be an equal amount of giving and receiving between the mentioned friends, otherwise one end will end up feeling dejected, and eventually withdraw from what started off as a strong bond. But even before you get yourself involved in a friendship, you should know what makes a good friend, so you yourself can put these facts into good use and make yourself the perfect friend for someone, say, like me.

A good friend will always be there to listen to my ongoing chatter, and not complain. They will sit there and drink in my words with a smile and an occasional nod to let me know they are still following intently behind. They will know exactly when to interrupt to say a few lines of encouragement, or consolation. After my turn of talking passes, it will be theirs. And they will know exactly how to respond, because a good friend doesn't have any vague answers to give. They are full of knowledge, and can answer any question you ask.

A good friend, in my time of need, will come to my rescue. They will drop whatever they are doing, whenever they are doing it to come to my aid no matter how insignificant the issue at hand might be. When I call in the middle of the night, they will happily answer and give me their time.

A good friend will know everything there is to know about me. If asked a question about my favorite variety of pumpkin seeds, they will answer without a single second of hesitation. They will be, in a way, an encyclopedia of me. They will know my likes and dislikes, and can order my meals at the restaurant. They will know what things I am allergic to, and will warn me even before I come near any of them.

A good friend doesn't care about being paid back; they care more for my materialistic happiness and well-being. They will take me to the movies, and buy my ticket. They will offer to pay for my share of the bill if and when we go out to eat because they like to treat me. If and when I ask them for a certain amount of money, or a certain item, they will happily offer it, and never expect to get it back. They won't pester me about things I've never returned, nor will they ever remind me to give them back.

Most importantly a good friend knows when a friendship is going awry and will try everything in their power to steer it back on track.

If only my good friend did all these great deeds for me.